It’s always very cool to me how quickly things go downhill in new relationships when people begin residing together; I believe like it’s relatively simple to get along as a couple if you don’t have to see each other day in and day out, however, as soon as you are living directly under the same roof and negotiating every detail of your lives together things get a lot more complicated.
It’s no wonder that couples who transport in together are more than nine times more likely to break up than couples who stay in separate residences… This is something that I learned the hard way when my ex and I moved in together and immediately realized that every one of us had opposite opinions about air temperature control! Whereas he enjoyed ice frigid indoor air temperature I was a fan of warm, stagnant indoor type of air.
I hate having frigid air blowing on my body or feeling drafts all the time. It wasn’t long before every one of us were bickering about the temperature control settings on a weekly basis. The people I was with and I found ourselves engaging in real fights over something so stupid as air quality control. That’s just about when the temperature control sneaking began, every time I turned my back it seemed like my boyfriend was resting at the temperature control, betraying me with his air temperature modifications. I could not close my eyes without adjustments being made to the indoor air quality control programming that every one of us had agreed with. I didn’t believe like I could trust him after so many instances of dishonest air quality control fluctuations. To be fair, he felt the same way about my persistent temperature increases. In the end, every one of us broke up because of our differing air quality control opinions.